I have been married for almost 30 years to a wonderful and beautiful woman. We have been through a lot of difficulties throughout the years. She is a very patient and an understanding woman. I can be a little bizarre, at times, and my excuse is that I am a guy. Once you have decided, as a couple, to spend the rest of your life together, each of you should realize it is a commitment and do not think, well, we are together now, we can stop courting. This is a big mistake. Both people have to work at it or it will cease to exist. Let me tell you a good piece of advice in contributing to the wellbeing of your relationship and will not cost you anything, not even a dime. It is your own words. Words can be very powerful. You need to constantly tell each other of their attractiveness and of how proud you are of them. You may sound like a broken record, but if you are truly in love with them, it will come out naturally and easily, not being fake. And if you are truly in love with them, you are always thinking about this so, why not just tell them. People like to feel safe and secure. If you keep on complimenting of their looks and letting them know that you are proud of their accomplishments then, it strengthens the bond you both have. Your partner is more than your roommate. You have an obligation not only to yourself, but to your partner and to make life as good as it can be. A relationship is an investment and how you go about investing is how you will end up, good or bad. Use this tip and just see what happens.
